The Guilt About Feeling Good

I felt guilty yesterday for enjoying my coffee while reading about disasters in the news. This happens a lot. You’re having a good time, then remember something awful exists somewhere, and suddenly your pleasure feels wrong. Selfish. Like you’re betraying the suffering by not suffering too. But this makes no sense. Your misery doesn’t reduce anyone else’s misery. Your guilt doesn’t help the people you’re feeling guilty about. If anything, it wastes the good thing you had and creates more bad feeling in the world....

April 3, 2026 · 2 min · The Pleasure Principle

The One Thing We Know for Sure

Pain feels bad. That’s not a complex philosophical statement. It’s not even interesting. But it might be the only moral fact we can know for certain. Think about everything else people disagree on. Whether God exists. What makes life meaningful. Whether we have free will. Whether anything is truly right or wrong. But nobody argues that pain feels good while you’re experiencing it. The person writhing from a kidney stone isn’t confused about whether this is pleasant....

April 2, 2026 · 2 min · The Pleasure Principle

Why 'It's Natural' Is Never a Good Moral Argument

People love saying things are “natural” when they want to win an argument. Meat-eating is natural. Monogamy isn’t natural. Competition is natural. Cooperation is natural. Whatever position you want to defend, somewhere in the animal kingdom you can find an example that supports it. This should be your first clue that the argument doesn’t work. But here’s the real problem: natural things aren’t automatically good. Cancer is natural. Dying in childbirth is natural....

April 1, 2026 · 2 min · The Pleasure Principle

Your Dinner Is a Philosophy

You’re standing in your kitchen at 6 PM. What should you eat? This feels practical. Maybe boring. It’s not. It’s philosophy in action. Every choice reveals what you value most. Health? Convenience? Pleasure? Money? The planet? You could make pasta. Cheap, fills you up, takes ten minutes. That’s prioritizing efficiency and thrift. You could order Thai food. More expensive, but you worked late and deserve something good. That’s choosing present pleasure over future savings....

April 1, 2026 · 2 min · The Pleasure Principle

If We Can't Choose, Should We Still Punish?

Let’s say free will is an illusion. Your brain makes decisions before “you” know about them. Every choice follows from prior causes stretching back to the Big Bang. Should we still lock people up? The obvious answer is no. How can you blame someone for something they couldn’t help doing? That’s like punishing a rock for falling. But then I think about deterrence. Even if my decision to steal your bike isn’t “free,” the possibility of getting caught still influences that decision....

March 31, 2026 · 1 min · The Pleasure Principle

The Problem That Breaks Belief

Here’s the problem that ended my belief in God. If God exists, he’s supposed to be all-powerful, all-knowing, and perfectly good. But terrible things happen to innocent people. Children get cancer. Natural disasters kill thousands. Either God can stop this suffering but chooses not to — which makes him cruel. Or he wants to stop it but can’t — which makes him powerless. Or he doesn’t know it’s happening — which makes him ignorant....

March 31, 2026 · 1 min · The Pleasure Principle

What Stoics and Epicureans Actually Disagreed About

Most people think Stoics were against pleasure and Epicureans were for it. That’s not the real disagreement. Both schools wanted the same thing: a peaceful mind free from anxiety. They just had completely different ideas about how to get there. The Epicureans said: avoid pain, seek simple pleasures, stay out of politics. Build a small circle of close friends. Don’t chase fame or power. Keep your needs minimal so the world can’t hurt you....

March 30, 2026 · 1 min · The Pleasure Principle

Nietzsche Wasn't Celebrating

When Nietzsche wrote “God is dead,” most people think he was celebrating. He wasn’t. He was diagnosing a problem. A massive one. For centuries, God gave people answers. Why are we here? What should we do? What happens when we die? Christianity provided a complete framework for meaning. Then science happened. Philosophy happened. People started questioning. By Nietzsche’s time, many educated Europeans had stopped believing, even if they kept going to church....

March 30, 2026 · 1 min · The Pleasure Principle

You're Probably Already a Utilitarian

Most people reject utilitarianism when they first hear about it. The idea that we should maximize happiness for the greatest number sounds cold. Calculating. Inhuman. But watch how people actually make decisions. You’re choosing a restaurant for your family. You pick the place where everyone will be reasonably happy, not the one that makes you ecstatic but your partner miserable. You’re deciding whether to play music. You keep it low because the neighbors are sleeping....

March 29, 2026 · 1 min · The Pleasure Principle

Camus and the Absurd Life

Camus had a simple observation: we want life to make sense, but it doesn’t. We keep asking “why” about everything. Why do bad things happen to good people? Why are we here? What’s the point? The universe doesn’t answer. It just sits there, indifferent. This mismatch — between our need for meaning and the world’s silence — is what Camus called the absurd. We’re like people shouting questions into an empty room, then getting frustrated by the echo....

March 29, 2026 · 2 min · The Pleasure Principle